Unkind People
Posted by Catherine Pierpoint | Posted in Go Out of Your Way for People , Need to be Nice , Things That Irk You , Unkind People | Posted on 2:09 PM
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Unkind people irk me. I understand I am a push over and will pretty much over extend myself for anyone; but then there are those people that only care about them. It’s all about me, me, me and right now. They don’t care who they hurt or what happens to the people around them. They are all about themselves and if you do not fit nicely into their plans or life; than oh well it doesn’t matter…
Now with a random person I can understand this, this person really does not owe you anything. In their mind unless they are very nice they will never do something above and beyond to try and help you out with something or go somewhere with you. Now if this is a person who you have a close bond with say a boyfriend perhaps; they should be willing to go out of their way for you and over extend themselves to you because they love and care for you.
Unkind people need to be nicer and think less about themselves and more about the world and people around them. If someone asks you to go somewhere with them go; they are probably asking you because they love your company and want you to be there with them, nothing else. I need to wake up and smell the coffee everyone I am overly nice to does not deserve my extreme niceness and the unkind people of the world need to put a smile on their face and help others out more often.
It is hard to extend yourself and receive nothing in return. A good relationship works in both directions. Give love and affection and feel it returned. Without that all important return of love there is no love or relationship. It's all about making good choices and being able to spot the taker and uncover the giver. They are hard to find, but worth it when you do.